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Negotiating Tip: Responding to Questions
Dated: March 23 2026
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Skilled negotiators know how to gather valuable information by asking the right questions. They also understand that questions will be directed back at them.
How we respond to questions can significantly influence the outcome of any negotiation.
To strengthen your ability to respond effectively, consider the following rules, guidelines, and techniques.
Pause Before Responding
Effective negotiators always pause before answering a question. That brief pause sends a strong signal and creates space to think through the best response.
Recognize Defensive Questions
Many questions are asked not to gain information, but to put you on the defensive and gain control. In these situations, focus your response on tactfully regaining control.
At times, it may be best to delay your answer, acknowledge the question, and ask why it was asked in the first place.
Not Every Question Requires an Answer
Silence, a thoughtful pause, or even a puzzled look can be highly effective. Ignoring the question and responding with a question of your own may be the right strategy.
This approach can be especially useful in everyday negotiations, including discussions with family members.
Avoid Over-Accommodating Answers
Answers should not be framed simply to please the other party. Being overly accommodating can send the wrong message, such as a willingness to concede too easily.
Soften Difficult Responses
If your response may come across as confrontational, soften it by prefacing with a statement like, “You may not like hearing this, but…”
Stay on Message
Consider responding to questions the way politicians often do. They answer, but not necessarily the question that was asked. Instead, they address the point they want to make and remain focused on their message.
Prepare in Advance
Enter negotiations anticipating what you hope your counterpart will ask. Prepare that response ahead of time and use a bridging statement to deliver it, such as, “That’s a good point, but first let me say…”
Keep Answers Concise
The most effective answers are short and deliberate. Saying too much can weaken your position. Choose your words carefully, use shorter sentences, and avoid responses you may later regret.
Once words are spoken, they cannot be taken back.
Strengthen Your Negotiation Skills
Select one or more of these question-response techniques and incorporate them into your negotiating approach. Used well, they will strengthen your confidence and effectiveness as you continue negotiating.
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